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The Art of Silence

What you’ll find here

Explorations of connection, coming alive, and staying grounded while leading.
The name comes from the practice of removing what stands between us and sacred ground.

This writing is about being fully human while leading.
The questions without quick answers.
What appears when we slow down enough to notice.
How we come alive, or go numb, in the midst of our days.

I write about connection: to ourselves, to each other, to the aliveness beneath the surface of our lives.
About what asks to be tended.
About the interior landscape that decides whether we stay present or fragment under pressure.

These are personal reflections on being human, not instructions on how to lead.

I’m developing The Art of Silence—a series on what becomes possible when we create space for the intelligence that emerges only in stillness.
How silence restores the nervous system.
How it allows a kind of wisdom analysis alone can’t reach.

This work is drawn from decades of sitting with leaders when familiar frameworks no longer fit and something deeper is being asked.

Reflections on coming alive.
Observations that shift perspective.
Language for what you’re holding.
Writing to support your leadership journey and deepen the questions worth living with.
Published slowly - when there’s something worth saying.

Jamie Vickery Jamie Vickery

Leading Through Change: What Senior Leaders Need When Everything Is in Motion

Change is no longer an occasional disruption - it is the operating environment. Mergers, restructures, digital transformation, economic uncertainty and shifting employee expectations mean senior leaders are rarely leading in steady conditions. Yet many leaders are expected to “manage change” without ever being trained in how change actually lands emotionally, psychologically and culturally across an organisation.

Leading through change is not about having the perfect plan. It is about how leaders show up while the plan is evolving.

At senior level, change carries weight. Decisions made in boardrooms cascade quickly, often before people have had time to process what those decisions mean for their roles, identity or sense of security. Employees don’t just respond to what leaders say during change - they respond to what leaders do, what they avoid, and how regulated or reactive they appear under pressure.

One of the biggest mistakes organisations make is focusing change training on process rather than people. Frameworks, timelines and milestones matter, but they do not address the human experience of uncertainty. When leaders underestimate this, they often see resistance, disengagement or a drop in trust - not because people are unwilling to change, but because they don’t feel seen or steadied through it.

Effective change leadership starts with self-awareness. Leaders need to understand their own relationship with change before they can lead others through it. Do they default to control? Do they rush to certainty too quickly? Do they avoid difficult conversations in an effort to keep things calm? These patterns are rarely conscious, yet they shape how safe or unsafe change feels for those around them.

Another critical element is emotional regulation. During periods of transition, leaders become emotional reference points. Their stress, impatience or optimism is contagious. Training that helps leaders stay grounded, tolerate ambiguity and respond rather than react can dramatically alter the tone of change across an organisation. This is especially important in moments where answers are genuinely unclear and leaders must communicate without overpromising.

Clarity and honesty also matter more than ever. Leading through change does not mean having all the answers - it means being clear about what is known, what is unknown, and how decisions will be made. Leaders who communicate transparently, even when the message is uncomfortable, build far more credibility than those who hide behind jargon or false reassurance.

Carissa Bubb’s work with senior leaders focuses on exactly these moments. Her approach to leading through change is grounded in the understanding that transformation is as much an internal process as it is an organisational one. Rather than teaching leaders to “perform confidence”, she helps them develop the capacity to hold uncertainty, lead difficult conversations, and maintain trust while things are in flux.

Importantly, leading through change is not just about getting people through the transition; it is about shaping what comes next. The behaviours leaders practise during periods of disruption often become embedded in culture long after the change itself is complete. How leaders listen, decide and communicate under pressure sends powerful signals about values and priorities.

In today’s environment, change is inevitable - but chaos is not. Organisations that invest in helping leaders lead change with emotional intelligence, clarity and courage are far more likely to emerge stronger, more cohesive and more resilient on the other side.

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Training for the C-Suite: Why Leadership at the Top Needs a Different Approach

Training for the C-suite is not the same as training for the rest of the organisation - and it shouldn’t be. Senior leaders operate in a world of complexity, pressure and consequence where decisions ripple far beyond individual teams. The reality is that many executives reach the top because of their technical expertise or commercial track record, yet find themselves underprepared for the human, cultural and systemic challenges that come with senior leadership.

This is where targeted C-suite training makes a material difference.

At the most senior level, leadership is less about doing and more about being. C-suite leaders are setting the emotional tone of the organisation, shaping culture through behaviour, and making high-stakes decisions with incomplete information. Traditional training models - content-heavy, one-size-fits-all, or overly theoretical - often miss the mark. What senior leaders need is space to think, challenge assumptions, and develop the self-awareness required to lead in uncertainty.

Effective C-suite training focuses on a few critical areas.

First, decision-making under pressure. Executives are constantly balancing short-term performance with long-term strategy, often while navigating ambiguity, risk and competing stakeholder demands. Training at this level needs to sharpen judgement, not prescribe answers. It should help leaders recognise cognitive biases, stress responses and habitual patterns that can undermine decision quality at critical moments.

Second, leadership presence and influence. At the top, authority comes with the role, but influence is earned through trust, clarity and consistency. C-suite training must address how leaders show up in the room - how they communicate, listen, challenge and role-model values. Small shifts in behaviour at this level can have outsized impact across an organisation.

Third, emotional intelligence and self-regulation. Senior leaders are under constant scrutiny. Their reactions in moments of tension - a board meeting, a crisis, a difficult conversation - are amplified. Training that builds emotional awareness, resilience and the ability to stay grounded under pressure is not a ‘nice to have’; it is foundational to sustainable leadership.

This is where Carissa Bubb’s approach to C-suite training stands out. Rather than focusing on surface-level skills or leadership theory, her work centres on helping senior leaders understand how they think, react and lead when it matters most. Her sessions create a rare environment where executives can step out of performance mode, reflect honestly, and develop practical strategies that translate directly into their day-to-day leadership.

Crucially, C-suite training must respect the experience in the room. Senior leaders do not need to be told what leadership is; they need support in evolving how they lead as the context around them changes. Whether it is leading through growth, transformation, uncertainty or personal transition, the most effective training meets leaders where they are and stretches them thoughtfully from there.

In a world where culture, trust and adaptability are now core competitive advantages, investing in C-suite development is no longer optional. Organisations that prioritise thoughtful, psychologically informed training at the top are better equipped to navigate complexity, retain talent and lead with integrity.

Leadership doesn’t get easier at the top - but with the right training, it can become more intentional, more human and ultimately more impactful.

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